I haven't felt like blogging much lately, not because nothing is happening, but because how many times can I say that the Obama administration are lamentably arrogant, incompetent and unethical.
Thirty-six days oil is leaking in the Gulf and Obama has done nothing but complain about the people actually trying to do something about it. Bush got three days before people were outraged that he hadn't rebuilt New Orleans. There is just not much to say about that state of affairs except wait for it to be over.
On the other hand, stupid-funny bears comment.
The problem is that those guys often don't see beyond their beauty and they don't like it when they wake up one day and see a real person, who has a real problem one day, whether it's a cold or emotional needs. This type of man looked for a woman to make up for his own ego deficiencies, and when he can't get enough of that, he looks elsewhere.
"Beautiful women may doom themselves to becoming cheating victims because they themselves have want a "charismatic and attractive love mate." They're often attracted to "narcissistic men." Think Tiger, Jesse, K-Fed for Britney, Tony Romo for Jessica Simpson.
"These men are very charismatic. They know how to get women interested in themselves. but because they are so attractive and charismatic themselves, they have other women throwing themselves at them, especially in high profile worlds," says Rhonda Findling, psychologist and author or The Commitment Cure: What To do If You Fall For An Ambivalent Man.
Get it? Charismatic men with the confidence to woo beautiful, unattainable women, suffer from insecurity.
Morons.
Nobody wants to say whats really going on, but I'll tell you, if you keep it to yourself.
Men cheat because they can--end of that part of the story. What is far more interesting is the secret war between women.
If you watched even just a couple of westerns, you understand that if you can beat the fastest gun in the west, then you're the fastest gun in the west. Women have a similar dynamic, but they compete for the attention of men, and there are few situations more dangerous than a man targeted for romance by a woman, interested in the roommate instead. Its best to put some distance between yourself and that particular dynamic.
Most women eventually come to terms with their place in the female pecking order, but there are always a substantial percentage of psychos who never do, and like babies, they confuse their envy of the other kid's enjoyment of a toy, with possession of the toy itself.
I don't know if beautiful women are cheated on more, but I suspect they are. Consider the dynamics.
1. Beautiful women are naturally intimidating, repelling beta males and increasing the chances that they will marry alpha males, who, by virtue of their looks, charisma and/or financial success, will have opportunity to engage in sexual adventures with other women. Remember the rule--"because they can..."
2. If you can get a beautiful woman to be frank with you, they will admit that they had life-long problems with other envious girls and women. The plea to "don't hate me because I'm beautiful" isn't just a clever advertisement for makeup, but a glimpse into the reality of the female universe.
The combination of a higher-than-average likelihood of having an attractive mate, and a higher-than-average incidence of female resentment would seem to doom the pretty girls to eventual misery.
On the other hand, this is all just theoretical. Nevertheless, I have observed several female friends, after their husbands have achieved business success, go through some extraordinary efforts (i.e. breast implants...) to make themselves more attractive. Is it worry about rivals for their husband's affections? At least in some cases that was clearly the truth of the matter.