Having heard that Elizabeth Edwards was speaking out on her husband's condomless affair with a campaign bimbo, I browsed over to Time Magazine to read what she had to say.
I can't say I was shocked, but I was surprised that the left's lust for power was so extreme, that it would negate what has to be one of the worst betrayals and public humiliations in modern history.
It didn't occur to me that at a fancy hotel in New York, where he sat with a potential donor to his antipoverty work, he would be targeted by a woman who would confirm that the man at the table was John Edwards and then would wait for him outside the hotel hours later when he returned from a dinner, wait with the come-on line "You are so hot" and an idea that she should travel with him and make videos.
Do you see the implication here? It wasn't Edward's fault, it was the bimbo's. After a year of reflection, John is absolved of all responsibility.
Those with any fame or notoriety or power attract people for good reasons and bad. Some want to contribute and some want to take something away for themselves. They flatter and entreat, and it is engaging, even addictive. They look at our lives, which from the outside in particular are pictures of joy and plenty, and they want it for themselves.
I've known a lot of people who had to deal with infidelity, but none as humiliating and public as this. Not a one of them expressed this kind of magnanimity, especially not after a year. Psychologists specializing in infidelity will tell you that the possibility of reestablishing trust only begins to occur eighteen to twenty-four months afterwards--if at all.
The conclusion is obvious--Elizabeth is lying, which isn't particularly surprising in a political family like the Edwards. As I said, I wasn't shocked, but nevertheless surprised at the implications of this lie. The prospect of political power, no matter who distant, has such value for people like the Edwards that it trumps all others. Love and family, which for most people is the bedrock of their lives, are secondary considerations--even in a dying woman.
That scares the hell out of me.
What wouldn't Elizabeth Edwards do to get what she wants for her husband and herself?
I've got a book on my shelf called "On Killing" which analyzes in academic fashion the dynamics of killing. When I first read it, I was surprised at how difficult it is for the average person to kill someone. Militaries all over the world are actively managing psychopaths for maximum advantage because at the end of the day, you need people with this kind of extreme lack of empathy to kill the enemy.
Now imagine those people with political power.
Addendum: I had further thoughts after I published. When I was young, I used to watch hockey in an era where men of average size but superior skills were the stars of the sport. I had friends who had the talent to play professionally, but as we got into our twenties an interesting thing happened--my friends all ended up playing in Europe. The reason? Too small. The NHL had become yet another sport dominated by physical freaks of nature. Men of normal size were simply not competitive.
John and Elizabeth Edwards (among others...) are a fair indication that our political process has also become a freak league. Intelligence and talent are secondary to heaping quantities of dissocial personality disorder.
Normal people don't go into politics, and if they do, how long can they really endure such an environment? Maybe after we elect people, we should send them to psychiatric hospitals...